First stage of love for women: COURAGE

courage- mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty

Ladies are sick of men being screw ups. They are tired of men not stepping up to the plate. They are especially tired of men CHEATING(as if we were playing a game). And how do I know this, because that seems to be the new style these days MALE BASHING. So I have committed myself to identifying the labeling of men that has been going on due to the new girl power movement. So sit back and enjoy the journey towards LOVE without the misinterpretation and excessive bashing. This journey begins with the women.
The first stage of love for women is COURAGE. This is the first stage because this is the initial phase where women begin to get to know a new man. They have to put all their baggage behind them and start again. If they have been hurt it is difficult for them to move on and begin again. Anytime a woman meets a man and attempts a new beginning, fear kicks in. If they have had a consecutive streak of losers and no good men, then she may become bitter and disappointed. To overcome this fear a women has to have great mental and moral conviction.

Now some people might ask, why isn't courage the first stage for men. A characteristic such as courage is not a man or woman thing. However, in nature and life there are some things that are naturally occurring in each gender that is not in the other. Courage is one characteristic that is naturally occurring in men(or it should be) but a necessary component for women if they want to find real happiness with a potential mate for the future. A man is naturally courageous because when it comes to a relationship with a woman his fear and internal conflict is not the ability to persevere, but more so the difficult decision of SETTLING down with one woman. So while a man is struggling with the possible reality of not having thousands of women, a women has to toil with the constant feeling of being disappointed. Disappointment due to making consistent bad decisions in choosing a man. To pick up the pieces despite this disappointment is nothing more then courage. A courage that builds strong women and separates them from women that complain about being lonely and bash men for chasing other women. There is nothing more appealing then a woman that displays courage time after time.

And it is my view that these type of rare COURAGEOUS women are the ones that can snatch a man at will, while the non-courageous women are left behind by themselves wondering what they did wrong. The answer. YOU MIGHT HAVE DONE EVERYTHING WRONG, BUT THE PATH TO LOVE INVOLVES EXERTING YOUR ABILITY TO PERSEVERE THROUGH ALL THE WRONGS AND MISTAKES AND KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE PRIZE. AND THAT PRIZE IS YOUR NATURAL BORN RIGHT TO BE HAPPY WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX.